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How To Boost Your Confidence | Tips You Need To Try Out Now

Train your mind to BELIEVE IN YOURSELFCONFIDENCE plays a huge role in how we live our lives. It either makes us or breaks us.

Summer is finally here (who’s excited?) and it’s almost Easter. Some of you girls might be struggling with the choice of outfits to wear because ‘YOU’ feel you don’t have the body to carry it. On the other hand, there are some who may not have the ‘particular body” but they do have the confidence, so they are able to pull off that outfit with ease.

Some of us might skip events because you think no one will find you interesting enough to talk to you. I’ve done it in the past and still do. I’ve missed out on some really cool networking events only because my confidence level was very low.

These are some of the tips that has helped me shape my confidence over the years and I want you to try them.

  • Train your Mind to say I CAN
Our mind tricks us to believe that we are not worthy enough of accomplishing our dreams. This impacts hugely our confidence and stops us from trying new things and meeting new people. Every-time your mind says; you cannot, confront it with ‘I CAN  and I will’ and go out and prove it. This way, you’re slowly training your mind to believe that YOU CAN achieve any goal.

4 Tips To Help You, When Plans Get Cancelled

Things have been difficult lately with plans either getting cancelled or failing miserably.

Not being able to attend The Photography Show has been one of the many disappointments. An event where all the leading photography brands gather to showcase their camera/equipments. All these has left me feeling angry and disappointed. 

I’ve been feeling useless almost everyday for the last 2 months and these 4 tips have helped me stay positive where my plans have gone down the drain.
the first thing I do is take deep breath when things go wrong

Come up with plan B

One way of dealing with failed plans is to pamper yourself and relax

When plans don't work, just go with the flow

I believe everything happens for a reason. i guess there’s always a good a good reason why things don’t work the way we want them to.

“good things fall apart to make way for the better”. 

What do you do when your plans fail? Do you have any tips to share with me? I could do with some more. 

Mother’s Day: This Is My Story, What’s Yours?

I was going to jump on the bandwagon and do a ‘Mother’s Day‘ gift guide post but decided to do something different. I thought of writing about how I have been celebrating Mother’s Day all these years.

My Mother's Day Story
Grainy & black and white, that’s my life!

To be honest, I had never even heard of Mother’s Day. Growing up in a tiny village in south-east India, the only thing celebrated was teachers and children’s day. So, when I moved to UK with my family, It was very difficult to digest all these days (there’s too many of them). It’s only when our parish priest started distributing tulips and daffodils to celebrate mum’, I started to understand what mother’s day is all about.

What Have I Done With My Life?

What Have I Done With My Life? is a question we all have asked ourselves at some point in our lives and probably failed to answer it.

As I grow older I’ve stopped enjoying birthdays because everybody wants to know when I’m getting married….eye rolls. (Try to imagine this but don’t get carried away lol; I’m an asian girl, 31 years old, eldest of the siblings and my brothers have girlfriends and are ready to tie the knot.)

However,  in the last 2 years, I’ve started enjoying my birthday all over again (the pressure to get married still lingers but I’m trying to look pass that). I try to console myself by thinking that age is just a number.

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I couldn't help but stare at my #dreamhouse 🏡💖 dreaming of spending chilly winters by the wooden fireplace 🔥baking pies and drinking tea ☕️ while gazing out of the window 💭
Hey a girl can dream right ?☺️💖✨
  • The world is full of magic things, patiently waiting for our senses to grow sharper ✨💫 - W.B. Yeates
  • Beaconsfield is a beautiful town with spectacular houses full of character and architectural perfection 🏘
But what caught my eye were the gardens. It's like every house has a forest 🌲🌳🐿 as their front/back garden and it's all maintained and taken very good care of 💖
I love exploring new places on foot and by getting lost 🚶🏻‍♀️which means I need to take breaks either to fuel up 🥘🌯which happens 99% of time or to just take in some fresh air 💕
  • Exploring new #cornersofmyworld is my favourite thing to do especially when it's this beautiful 😍

What's YOUR favourite thing to do?
  • Everytime I have holidays booked and wanna go exploring, I come down with a flu 🤧

Don't think the universe is on my side ☹️
But sometimes I refuse to give in and there are times where my body refuse to co-operate 😨

It's a tough world we live in, I tell you 😂🤣 So for now I'm in snuggled in my duvet all comfy watching the storm go crazy outside destroying my flower pots 🍂🥀🍃
  • The cold winds are creeping in just like @richmond_council does every now and then on my feed ☺️
See if you can spot the dog hiding behind the flowers 🐶